Thursday, June 26, 2008

'nuff said ... said the 5 year old


I was eating lunch with my family today prior to flying out of town to teach an Every Man's Battle workshop in Florida. As we were eating, we started talking about how much Daddy loves Mommy. My youngest daughter, Sarah Noelle (age 5), in between bites of her peanut butter sandwich says to everyone, "Keep hugging, keep kissing, keep loving, and she will know." Wow! I was ready to give her an honorary counseling degree. She nailed it. She sees mommy and daddy do a lot of this at times and maybe we're more consistent at it than we first thought. I think Sarah is onto something here. When the love is flowing between husband and wife in the way Sarah described, it means something is safe and consistent in the connection relationally, emotionally and spiritually. She not only sees it, she feels it and it made perfect sense to her. Rebecca and I have a big task at hand - continuing the expression of our love and keeping our hearts in shape because it is not only increasing our love but also making a huge impression on the little hearts around us as well. Hope your heart is well today...in struggle or joy... Peace.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Goodbye Double Entendre?

Great article over @ msnbc.com on commercials with sexual innuendo airing @ early times in the day when children may be viewing. See, you don't have to be a part of the Family Research Council to have a voice in this matter. The article is called "Can I have my playoffs without the crotch grab?" ... let me know what you think...take care...

Friday, June 06, 2008

Trust

Trust seemed to be the overarching topic in my life as I entered this week. Feeling it being stretched in my own heart and then hearing similar stories in the hearts of the brave people who I have the honor of journeying with; trust has been on my mind and heart. Whether it is the lack of trust an injured wife feels as she continues to try to mend from the news of her husband's infidelity or sexual addiction to porn or for the single man who struggles with staying isolated and not trusting his heart to someone due to the fear he will end up just like his parents - divorced and alone; trust is an essential need in the heart. To love is to risk. But to risk will require a level of trust. Who do you trust? How has your past, experiences, outlook and current situation effect your ability to trust? Do you see trust as a need for one's heart? If so, how is that need being met in your life? ...Peace